Since homosexuality was removed from the DSM in 1973, there have been radical changes in the way the mental health field views sex and gender diverse people: those who are same-sex oriented, transgender people, those who identify as asexual, kinky, nonmonogamous, for example. At the same time, the ‘queer’ community has changed dramatically itself. What started as a movement of those who identified as gay or lesbian has become a ‘big tent’ community that includes all the groups mentioned above and others. In this workshop we will learn about the new paradigms that have replaced the old – diversity instead of pathology, gender spectrum instead of binary, sexual fluidity instead of fixed categories. We will examine the research on sex and gender diversity, including the body of research comparing same and opposite sex oriented couples. We will extract the lessons about sexuality and gender we can learn from studying diversity that apply to all clients, whether ‘mainstream’ or not.
• Describe the history of how psychiatry and sexology have viewed sex and gender variance from the 1860’s until the present
• Describe the rationale for the ‘pathology model’ and the rationale and evidence for the current ‘normality’ paradigm for sex and gender variance
• Explain how the ‘queer’ community has changed – and expanded – over the last forty years
• Define the concepts of intersectionality and the age cohort effect among LGBTQ people
• Describe the different subgroups within the queer community, especially: bisexuals; kinky people;nonmonogamous people
• List 3 in sights about ‘mainstream’ sexuality learned from the research on gay couples and on alternative sex and gender expressions
• Explain the new standards of care for transgender and gender nonconforming clients
• Describe some of the clinical issues that might come up with nonmonogamous or kinky clients, or couples where one member is bisexual, is transitioning, or wants to open the relationship
30 min- Introductions; Why It Matters To Know About Sex and Gender Diversity
1 hr – The History of Sexology and Psychiatry and Its Views of Sex and Gender Diverse People
15 min break
1 hr and 15 min – The Underpinnings of the Pathology Model; the Evidence for a Normative Model
1 hr How the Queer Community has Changed Since Stonewall
1 hr – Lunch
3o min – Processing the morning; Q & A
1 hr – Research on same sex couples and the implications for your practice
15 min – Break
1 hr – Bi, Trans, Kink and Nonmonogamy- implications for your practice
45 min – Small group role play
30 min – Summary and Discussion
Margie is a queer-identified psychotherapist, writer, activist, and educator with forty years of experience working in the LGBT+ community. She is a licensed psychologist, AASECT certified sex therapy supervisor, and WPATH GEI (Global Education Initiative) Mentor. In 1983 Dr. Nichols founded the Institute for Personal Growth, a multi-site psychotherapy center in New Jersey that centers the LGBTQ+ community both as clients and therapists, and directed IPG until 2018. In 1985 she was a primary founder and the first Director of the Hyacinth AIDS Foundation, which continues to be New Jersey’s primary provider of social services and advocacy to people affected by HIV.
Dr. Nichols has authored more than two dozen papers or book chapters that are focused on LGBTQ+ issues. In 2020 her book, “The Modern Clinician’s Guide to Working with LGBTQ+ Clients” was published by Routledge Press.
Dr. Nichols also conducts trainings, workshops, and seminars virtually and in person. She supervises both therapists wishing to become AASECT-certified and those seeking WPATH certification, in addition to doing consults with therapists on specific cases.
She currently maintains a small private practice of therapy and consulting in Jersey City, New Jersey. She can be reached at firstname.lastname@example.org.